[ He listens intently, processing that. Turning it over well in his mind before he speaks again. ]

Well. I'm sure you well know that nobody here would be judging you on that. Most don't even have context. However... I understand how you would still be worried. I'm sure those kinds of things aren't exactly something you just 'get over'.

People who hate, or fear- they'll always make up reasons. They'll always find something to poke at. It's not your job to represent a whole group of people. Hateful folk will always move the goal posts on you. They will always find a reason to avoid admitting they're wrong. Don't try to worry about dispelling any stigmas or trying to be more acceptable to people like that. Their opinions are empty. Valueless.

All you should be worrying about, is trying to enjoy your life.

I know my saying so is likely nothing you haven't heard or thought of before... but sometimes it helps to be reminded.